SHADES OF INTIMACY

Burn through the bullshit. Awaken the spark. Step into sacred polarity.

August 15th - August 17th 2025

Private Estate in the Mountains of Utah

🎟️ $500 per person

Shades of Intimacy Ticket

This isn’t couples therapy.
This is ceremony.
This is truth-telling.
This is embodied masculine & surrendered feminine, staring each other in the eyes—no masks left.

Whether you come solo or with a partner, this 3-day immersive will challenge everything false and call forward everything real.

🔥 For those ready to feel again.
🔥 For those ready to lead with love, not perform it.
🔥 For those done pretending, and ready to stand in fire and beauty

This Is Not Therapy. This Is Truth.

Shades of Intimacy is a 3-day immersive experience in the raw, sacred dance between Masculine and Feminine energy.

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this workshop is for those ready to stop performing and start embodying.

We explore polarity—not as a concept, but as a lived experience. Through embodied practice, direct feedback, movement, breath, challenge, and truth-telling, you will:

• Rekindle intimacy and erotic charge with your partner

• Attract the kind of love and connection you’ve been craving

• Let go of outdated roles, and reclaim your essence

• Learn how to feel deeply without collapsing, and lead boldly without controlling

• Practice sacred intimacy with presence, purpose, and power

This is for men who are ready to stand.
This is for women who are ready to soften.
This is for couples ready to remember each other.
And for singles who are ready to remember themselves.

Meet Your Guides

Jason & Jennie Smith

We’re not here to preach from a stage.
We’re not interested in perfect Instagram relationships.
And we’re definitely not teaching from theory.

We’ve lived polarity—and we’ve lost it.
We’ve navigated betrayal, numbness, boredom, longing, passion, reunion, and rebirth.
We’ve burned through roles, masks, and wounds.
And every time we’ve chosen to rise—together.

This work didn’t come from books.
It came from failing forward, fighting for each other, and finding the sacred in the mess.

We don’t just facilitate this workshop.
We live it—in our marriage, in our leadership, in the way we raise our family, and the way we hold our containers.

We are here to stand in devotion to Truth. Polarity. And Love.

If you’re willing to bring your real self to this space, we’ll meet you there.

What You’ll Experience Inside the Container

This isn’t a lecture.
This is not a "tips and tricks" intimacy workshop.
This is embodied transformation—through breath, movement, challenge, polarity practice, and sacred fire.

Over 3 days, you’ll be guided through a series of experiential practices designed to shake loose what’s false, awaken what’s real, and bring you back into deep contact—with yourself, your partner (if present), and the sacred masculine/feminine dance that lives inside all of us.

You’ll explore:

• 🔥 Masculine Purpose & Presence & Direction & Focus
  How to access unshakable direction, focused clarity, and grounded awareness—even in emotional storms.

• 🌺 Feminine Radiance & Surrender & Light & Energy & Pleasure
  How to soften without collapsing, feel fully without drowning, and embody beauty as a gift, not a trap.

• 🎭 Light and Shadow Work
  How to transmute pain, darkness, anger, and fear into something beautiful, powerful, and clean.

• 💀 The Depths of Real Intimacy
  What happens when the masks drop, the games stop, and you meet someone soul-to-soul—with nothing in between.

• 🧭 Embodiment Over Theory
  Every lesson is practiced in your body—not your head. This is work that bypasses your intellect and hits your nervous system.

• 💫 Polarity in Practice
  How to create instant, undeniable polarity with anyone—using energy, breath, and embodied truth.

• ⚡ The Four Stages of Intimacy & Maturity
  Move from dependence… to independence… to sacred union… and beyond.

• 🌓 The Art of Devotion
  To yourself. To truth. To the sacred masculine/feminine within and without.

• 🌌 Altered States & Ecstasis
  Learn how to safely navigate expanded states of consciousness—through breath, embodiment, and relational depth. These are not escapes… they are initiations. When approached with reverence, they open doors to healing, insight, and deep remembrance.

These aren’t just techniques.
They’re initiations.
They’ll ask something of you.
And they’ll give you back more than you expect—if you show up ready to burn.

Is there Pain in your Relationship?

DIVORCED AND NEED HELP? WATCH THE SHORT CASE STUDY VIDEO OF SUSAN TAYLOR’S STORY.

Whether you’ve been together for decades or you’re still searching for someone to meet you fully… intimacy often feels like it’s slipping through your fingers.

You feel more like roommates than lovers.
The passion has faded—or vanished completely.
Sex is awkward, nonexistent, or emotionally disconnected.
Old wounds are showing up in new arguments.
And communication feels like walking through a minefield.

And yet…

There’s still a spark inside you.
A sense that more is possible.
That somewhere beneath the numbness, the truth of your love is waiting.

The pain of staying stuck has finally become greater than the fear of change.
That’s why you’re here.

This is the moment.
This is the line in the sand.
This is where it begins.

You are not wrong.
You are not broken.
But you are being called.

What’s Really Going On?

Masculine and feminine energy has been turned upside down in modern culture.

Women are more powerful, capable, and successful than ever before… but it’s come with a hidden cost: isolation, exhaustion, and a deep longing to surrender—to someone who can hold them fully.

Men are more open, emotionally aware, and sensitive… but many have lost their fire, their edge, their grounded masculine leadership.

We’ve evolved past the old roles—but we haven’t fully claimed the new ones.

So we end up in a strange limbo:

• Women in their masculine, doing everything alone.

• Men afraid to lead, drifting without purpose.

• Passionless partnerships. Dead bedrooms. Resentment disguised as politeness.

• Friends and co-parents… but not lovers.

The result? Polarity collapses.
The dance dies.

And with it, so does intimacy.

What is the Solution?

Shades of Intimacy is a 3-day experiential retreat designed to reignite passion, restore polarity, and bring you home to your deepest truth—whether you're partnered or solo.

Using ancient energetic principles, embodiment practices, and deep spiritual intimacy work, we guide you to:

• Rekindle love where it has gone dim

• Reconnect to your own masculine or feminine essence

• Navigate modern relationship dynamics with clarity

• Drop the masks, dissolve the patterns, and remember who the hell you are

We do this through movement. Practice. Breath. Stillness. Eye contact. Humor. Challenge. And devotion.

This is not therapy. This is initiation.

We were you.

We loved each other—but something was wrong.
We got along… but the passion was gone.
It wasn’t toxic—but it was flat.

Until we faced a cold, hard truth:
We were either going to dissolve the relationship… or do whatever it took to resurrect it.

That’s when we found polarity.

Jason stepped deeper into masculine leadership—direction, presence, and purpose.
Jennie awakened into feminine radiance—light, flow, and deep feeling.

Within weeks, we reconnected not just to each other, but to ourselves.

We discovered this wasn’t about fixing the other person.
It was about embodying who we truly were—and bringing that into the relationship.

That’s the fire we now teach.

• You want to repair or deepen your relationship—but don’t know how

• You want to feel passion, depth, and desire again

• You long to discover your purpose or reconnect to your energetic source

• You’re done with surface-level connection and ready for sacred intimacy

• You’re willing to show up, be seen, and do the work

• You're solo—but seeking to become the kind of person who attracts deep love

• You’re ready for something real

• You’re in a full-blown relationship crisis or dealing with emotional abuse (seek individual or couples therapy first)

• You’re unwilling to be witnessed, challenged, or emotionally honest

• You don’t want to stretch, sweat, laugh, cry, or be cracked open

• You’re looking for a quick fix or surface-level techniques

We’re not sharing theory from a book.
We’re living this work in the realest way—raising three kids, running two businesses, navigating grief, healing family trauma, holding our marriage through storms.

Flooded basements. Dog diarrhea. Elder care. Teenagers. Heartbreak. Death. Rebirth.

And in the middle of it all—we’ve discovered how to live a life of passion, intimacy, and purpose.

Not because it’s easy.
But because it’s true.

We can teach you how to do the same.

🕰️ Schedule & Logistics

This is an immersive, all-in, leave-your-bullshit-at-the-door experience.

We don’t do “lite” transformation.

We go deep—and we go together.

📍 Location

Heber City, Utah

Private estate in the mountains

Exact address and arrival instructions will be sent upon registration. (Don’t worry—we’ll get you there.)

🗓️ Dates & Times

Friday, August 15 – Sunday, August 17, 2025

We begin each day at 9:00 AM sharp and continue into the late evening (around 10:00 PM).

This is not a drop-in/drop-out workshop.

Each session builds on the last, and the transformation requires full presence. Cell phones are NOT allowed in the studio.

Please plan to attend all three days in full.

🛏️ Lodging

You are responsible for your own lodging.

There are plenty of local Airbnbs, hotels, and private rentals in and around Heber City.

Once registered, we’ll send recommendations for nearby options if you need them.

🍽️ Meals

Lunch and dinner are provided each day.

Meals are nourishing, intentional, and shared communally.

We accommodate dietary restrictions—just let us know on your intake form.

You’re responsible for your own breakfast and any snacks you like to have throughout the day.

🎒 What to Bring

• Comfortable clothes you can move in

• A journal and pen

• A water bottle

• Any grounding objects or sacred items you want near you

• An open heart and a willing body

(Seriously—bring the last one.)

🛑 Integrity Note

There is no nudity, no sex, and no inappropriate touch in this container.
You’ll work with multiple partners—but every practice is held with reverence, boundaries, and clarity.
Safety and integrity are non-negotiable.

WATCH JAMES TELL YOU HIS STORY OF TAKING A GOOD MARRIAGE AND MAKING IT GREAT

Hear From Some of the People We’ve Worked with

Full List HERE

🔥Are You Ready to Step Into the Fire?🔥

There comes a moment when the old ways no longer work.
When the silence in your relationship is louder than words.
When you crave something deeper—more real.

This is that moment.

Shades of Intimacy isn’t therapy.
It’s a sacred container where truth is spoken, shadows are met, and connection is rebuilt—honestly, courageously, and without shame.

We don’t pretend to have all the answers.
But we do have the tools, the space, and the fire to help you remember who you are—and what you’re here to build.

We offer a free 20-minute consult to see if this work is right for you.
No pressure. Just truth.

You don’t have to keep carrying it all alone.
Let this be the start of something real.

👉 Fill Out the Form Below to Schedule A Call

With fire and truth,
– Jason and Jennie

Two ways to step in. Choose the one that calls you.

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Shades of Intimacy

ALL HELD IN THE DISTINCTLY MAGICAL AND POWERFUL HEIGHTS OF THE MOUNTAINS NEAR PARK CITY AND DEER VALLEY, UTAH.

Blocked… Confused… and in need of Change?

Is your relationship heading in the direction you want, but you are running into snags?

Or

Do you know where you want to take your relationship but don’t know how to get there?

Or

You have no idea where you want to take your relationship, but you realize it’s time to make a change?

Experience an Adventure…

A profound unraveling…

Clearing your Pipes…

A Cleaning of your Prism of Self…

A kneading of your Soul

When it comes to Intimacy… when it comes to Polarity…

Less is More…

Less talk…

More touch…

Sets your loving on fire!

When it comes to the heart of matter…

Are you are about to break?

Feel like you need an overhaul?

Do you feel like an Old Dog needing to learn new Tricks?

Or does your relationship need Realignment?

Come join us for a full weekend where we will strip away the excess and cut down to the core of who you really are in order to discover the deepest possibilities in relationship. In this realm you will learn to dance with your true self and offer that light as a gift to your partner.  Body… mind… spirit are one… and they need to come into alignment for your highest gifts to shine through the prism of your soul…  We’ll teach you to align your breath and body and purpose and spirit and mind… so that what you want to give most can be given cleanly… Before you die, to your lover, your friends, you family, your community, your world…

Come Learn the Breath of Life

Learn how to give and receive Feedback

Need some feedback on your compass?  Are your magnets depolarized and your compass failing?  Realign to your true north.

Learn How to Clean your Dirty Prism

We are the dream… light shines through us… and the degree to which we are clean… clear… and empty of content is the degree to which the light of the universe shines brighter and our relationships deepens.  Growing up means cleaning your prism, which is accomplished by dropping your fears, opinions, and beliefs that cloud the face of your life’s offering.

The Source of Your Unhappiness

The source of our unhappiness is not a single thing… it’s a single process.  That process is our willingness to succumb to short term gains. Short term gains almost always translate into long term pain.  The true source of happiness comes when you understand and embody the process as exemplified in the comment: 

Short term pain… for long term gain.

Come with us and Explore the FULL Spectrum of Intimacy

Join us for a spectrum of intimacy where you will learn learn to shed your skin and dance the divine with yourself, your partner, and the world unfettered by fears, distractions, and desires.  Your radiant light and ravishing dark side will both be explored.  

We’ll help you clean up the gunk of your life…

And return you to a full, natural, pristine state.

Come join us on a journey through your various selves and their selfing, to a mature continuum of compassion and compromise, past all those limits into the fullness of truly present loving and giving from the deepest of all sources, your deepest yearning and widest consciousness.

Truth is all.

You are all.

You are Truth.

Give it.  Gift it.  Go for it.

Frequently Asked Questions

Real answers. No fluff. No manipulation. Just the truth.

I don’t have a current partner. Can I still come?

Yes. Absolutely. Many of our participants come solo.
The skills and practices you’ll learn will impact every area of your life—future relationships, current family dynamics, even your leadership in business.
This is deep inner work. It doesn’t require a partner—it just requires presence.

Will there be sex or nudity?

No. Let’s be direct: there is no sex, nudity, or inappropriate touch in this container.
The work can be intimate. It can be emotional. It can even feel electric.
But it is always held in the highest integrity.
There is no exchanging of bodily fluids, no sexual touch, and no agenda beyond truth, connection, and embodiment.

Will I work with other people?

Yes.
You’ll be working with multiple partners—men and women—in guided exercises that reveal and rewire how you relate, hold, and receive energy.
This is necessary, powerful, and carefully facilitated. You’ll never be thrown into something unprepared, and the space is held with clear boundaries and care.

What’s the daily schedule?

We begin at 9:00 AM and go late into the evening—typically around 10:00 PM—on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday.
This is immersive work.
We ask that all participants commit to the full experience. The workshop builds in stages, and every moment is part of the journey.

What’s the format of the intensive?

We move between teaching, group dialogue, and experiential practices.
You’ll be seated on the floor (we provide backjacks), and regularly standing, moving, and engaging in guided partner work.
Dress comfortably.
Be ready to move, breathe, and get real.
If you have injuries or mobility concerns, let us know ahead of time—we can adapt.

Is food included?

Yes—lunch and dinner are included all three days.
We’ll check for dietary restrictions in advance to accommodate as best we can.
You’re responsible for your own breakfast, as well as any snacks or extras you’d like throughout the day.

Are lodging and travel included?

No—you’ll need to book your own lodging and transportation.
The retreat takes place at a private estate in Heber City, Utah.
Exact address and arrival instructions will be sent upon registration.

Are scholarships available?

Yes. If you’re truly called to this work and your finances are the only thing in the way—reach out.
We’ve never turned someone away for lack of money.
But we also know this: when people get clear on what they want, they usually find a way.
This work has saved marriages and transformed lives. We believe in making it accessible without compromising the container.

Is there follow-up or coaching after the retreat?

Yes.
We offer an optional 90-day follow-up program for those who complete the intensive and want continued support.
Private coaching may also be available with Jason or Jennie (space is limited).
All follow-up is invitation-only—no pressure, no hard sell.

How do I know if this is right for me?

If your heart is pounding, if something inside you won’t let this go… you already know.
We don’t pressure people.
We don’t convince.
If you’re called, reach out. We’ll have a conversation and help you decide.
No pitch. Just clarity.

Still have questions?

Contact us directly at: jason@jasonfsmith.com

Shades of Intimacy RETREAT INTENSIVE Topics

Here you will receive the visionary instruction and personal teachings of Jason and Jennie Smith through experiential evolutions:

• What is your biggest gift and how can you give it fully?

• How to use humor to brighten sex and relationship

• Explore feminine yearning and surrender and openness and radiance

• Masculine riverbanks, clarity, direction, focus, and presence.

• How can you pass through your resistance to 'surrender'?

• The Shades of Feminine and Masculine Closure

• An understanding in your body of the profound differences of between masculine and feminine energy.

• How to access your masculine purpose for use in life.

• How to access your feminine radiance for use in life.

• How to create instant polarity with someone using these energies.

• Tapping into your dark side and using it as an offering instead of a curse

• The Maturity Continuum, from dependence to independence to interdependence and then beyond to the fourth Stage Loving: The Integrated State.

• The Four Stages of Maturity and Intimacy

• The power of masculine purpose centered presence and how to offer it.

• The power of feminine light and radiance.

• The boundaries of light and dark energy sources and how to offer them as gifts instead of as selfing

• Passing through boundaries of fears into openness

• Dropping bags of rocks from your past through embodiment

• Reconnecting to passion, for your own life and your intimacy

• Experiential experience: Practice emphasized over theory

• Heart Connection emphasized over quick fix techniques

• Creatively exploring your potential in life through intimacy

• Navigating and exploring altered states (Ecstasis)

• Finding and Living your Purpose

• Self generating practices to become your own guru, teacher, facilitator.

• The dark side of human evolution, and the power residing there and how to transform it from toxicity to gifting.

• Death, fear, and attachment, going Into the Night to find the LIGHT.